Unchangeable Relationship

    Who will be the first person encouraging you when you fail? Who will be the first person that forgives all the mistake that you make? Who is the person loves you more and truly than other friends do? All of the answers turn out into the only one answer, that is, your family. Family is always your back up and supports you at any stage you are. The family members may not smart enough to know what you're thinking, but they definitely are the person who pays the most sympathy for what you've been through. This reliable relationship will last forever till you die.


    We often say that money can tear loving couple apart, break relationship among siblings, and destroy friendships. However, there's something we can do to avoid such negative influence happened among us. First, building the identical values of money needs to be as early as possible. Family education is what we receive much earlier then school education. Consequently, siblings all accept the same quality and quantity of education from parents. Needless to say, parents play a great role building self conscious of children. They are responsible for our personality development when we were young. For example, My younger sister and I were taught that money is less important than family relationship, so we never had any argument regarding money. Instead, we developed a positive concept of using money because we have a great role model, my parents.


    Second, which is more difficult one to avoid money dispute among siblings, is to hold the same dream and hope. Another good example in the field of sports, which is also brought a significant influence to baseball development, was the successful investment of baseball team among five brothers. Hung brothers held the same baseball dream to promote the beginning of Chinese Professional Baseball League. Especially the manager of Brother Hotel, Hung Teng-Sheng, he is the eldest among his siblings, but also the founder of Chinese Professional Baseball League. After the success of operating hotel, he and his brothers gathered money from each business field, such as hardware business, tailoring business, and hotel business. Sooner they created the first baseball team, Brother Elephants, and keep contacting other firms to form more baseball teams to contribute the Chinese Professional Baseball League. This is the 20th year since the league has been created. Even though it is facing the most terrible scandal among ball teams (see the post "Former MLB Player Involved in Fixed Games Scandal"), I don't think Hung brother will give up their baseball dream.


    There are still many stories show that family relationship will not be broken by money. Similarly, There is something that only family members can give you a hand without any hesitation. I firmly believe that only family members are the person you can trust and count on.